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10 Gift Ideas for Writers

My favorite part of December magazines is the gift guides. I grabbed a copy of Real Simple and Oprah Magazine hoping to find the perfect gift for the people on my list. I didn’t see anything in either or them that I wanted to have or to give. The stuff was too showy or just plain weird. No anyone on my list who would enjoy a package of chocolate sardines in a reusable tin.

So as a courtesy to those of you who are looking for a gift for yourself or the writer in your life, I’ve come up with 10 Gifts for Writers.

  1. Freedom Productivity Application – It locks down the Internet while you write. I first read about it in Poets and Writers Magazine. I’m definitely giving this one to myself. It turns out several famous authors use it. Nora Ephron even mentioned it in an article about her in The New York Times. It’s only $10.
  2. A Writer’s Conference/Workshop – There is nothing like being surrounded with a bunch of writers to get your creative juices flowing. I’m going to AWP (Association of Writers& Writing Program) Chicago Conference. They have a variety of workshops and readings. But the best part is the huge book fair. Even if you can’t fit Chicago into you plans, there are tons of local conferences and workshops. Both AWP and Poets and Writers Magazine have list on their websites.
  3. A Starbucks Gift Card – Writers and coffee. Need I say more?
  4. Champagne – In preparation of that acceptance e-mail or letter. Imagine how gratifying it will be to have it already chilling when you get the news. Try Laurent-Perrier Rose. It’s wonderful.
  5. Tickets to a local exhibit or show – A wonderful way to feed the inner artist.
  6. Hand cream – My hands get dry when I’m in the flow of writing. I love True Blue SpaSuper-softening Hand Lotion –Look Ma New Hands by Bath and Body Works. 
  7. A Tote bag or Messenger bag – Big bags come in handy when you’re writing on the go.  Kipling has great durable bags for under $100.
  8. Massage – Relieves tension in the back, forearms and wrist. It also relaxes the mind. Your Muse need pampering too.
  9.  A Subscription to a Literary Journal – One Story is a great literary journal that focuses on one story a month. It fits easily into a purse for a quick read. 
  10. Journal and pens – Writers never have too many journals or pens.

What gifts would you add to the list?

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New Alert!!!

I am so excited that Christi McGuire at Witty Words chose my blog for a Liebster Award. Liebster is a German word that means dearest, beloved or favorite. This award is from fellow bloggers and must be given to blogs that have fewer than 200 followers. This is a great way for the blogging community to connect and share blogs that we have enjoyed.

Here are the requirements that come with this award:

1. Show your thanks to the blogger who gave you the award by linking back to them. (Thanks,  Christi)

2. Reveal your top 5 picks for the award and let them know by leaving a comment on their blog.

3. Post the award on your blog.

Helenadornmentsblog Helen writes about glass art and other crafts. She brings out my inner crafter.
Work-in-Progress Leslie writes about the creative process and all things literary. She’s my weekly literary writing boost.
Diana’s  Notebook Literary Musing  Diana is a memoirist, essayist, poet and teacher. She writes about writing and life.
DeborahGraceStaley Debbie writes about writing, life and living with depression. She is also the author of the Angel Ridge Series.
101 Books Robert Bruce is a making his way through 100 Time Magazines greatest English-speaking novels. I really enjoy his prespective and the way he starts a dialogue about books.
I’m grateful for each of these blogs. Thank you all for sharing your life and ideas with me.
Kim
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Flip-Flop State of Mind

Two weeks ago, I was walking down the stairs into my backyard, slipped on an acorn, fell onto the pine straw, and rolled down the hill. When I finally stopped, one ankle was twisted behind me and the other one bent in front of me. I lay there thinking there is no way I’m going to be able to stand on the pine straw in my blinged-out wedge flip-flops. The surface of pine straw is slippery even in the most practical footwear. Fortunately, my friend was in the backyard and heard me fall. After checking to see if I was okay, we both laughed as we tried to figure out how I was going to stand up.

After a bit of deliberation, I grabbed onto my friend’s arm and slowly straightened one foot and then the other. Amazingly, I was able to bear weight on both ankles. Though I felt the initial soreness from the fall, adrenaline prevented me from feeling the real pain.

Reluctantly, I changed into a pair of flat flip-flops. The shoes I was wearing looked better with my outfit and prevented my jeans from dragging the ground, but I had a ton of errands to run and feared I might really hurt myself walking around in high heels.

I took both dogs to the vet, straightened up the house, and went to my acupuncture appointment. The fall seemed to have little effect on me until I lay on the table to receive my treatment. Both ankles throbbed and ached like crazy. It didn’t surprise me when the acupuncturist informed me both of my ankles were sprained. It made sense considering the way they were sprawled in different directions. She gave me some herbs to reduce the swelling and then told me I needed to wear a more supportive shoe than flip-flops. I left her office more annoyed that she challenged my flip-flops than the fact that both of my ankles were sprained.

Admittedly, I have a shoe fetish. Nothing makes me happier than strolling through Nordstrom’s shoe department. I rarely leave empty-handed. Consequently, I have more shoes than I would ever publicly document. I made that mistake once when I shared the number with my husband. I thought he would find it amusing. He didn’t. He just uses it to keep a running tally. Needless to say, I love shoes. And of all the shoes I have, flip-flops are my absolute favorite. Since we moved to Atlanta, I wear them nine months out of the year in Atlanta. I have a variety of colors and styles. When I put on a pair of flip-flops, a sense of freedom washes over me. I’m relaxed and open. I feel more creative. I just want to have fun. It’s a whole flip-flop mindset.

This may be a stretch, but I think the flip-flop mindset can be applied to writing. Creativity is at its best when we allow ourselves the freedom to be playful with our craft.

I wouldn’t describe myself as naturally playful. I’ve been thinking a lot about how to be more playful and have more fun. I get mired in the yuck of the subjects that I write about. So, I challenged myself to participate in NaNoWriMo (National Novel Writing Month). I decided to try my hand at a semi-romance (not a real genre, but who cares). Anyway, I had so much fun just playing with my characters and the storyline. I began to wonder why I didn’t write like that more often.

Then it occurred to me, I write like a pair of practical shoes.

I’m too considered about personal comfort. I’m confined to a fixed process, style, and voice, because it has worked in the past. I don’t let myself experiment. And while there are times when practical shoes are appropriate, there are other options.

Sometimes you need to be like a pair of sneakers to withstand the hard work of revision.

Other times you need to slip on a sexy pair of pumps to make your writing elegant and sleek. And then there are times when you need to put on a pair of flip-flops to have some fun. Understanding your mindset and what works best for the time is an important part of building your confidence as a writer.

T I have been wearing a pair of shoes I would have never bought if both ankles weren’t sprained. When I look down at my feet, I groan at their lack of style and the fact that I can’t see my toes. But when I walk, I realize I am wearing the appropriate type of shoes for my current situations. As writers, we have to be adaptable to where we are mentally, emotionally, and physically. Wearing the right mindset can be as important as the right pair of shoes.

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My Version of the Truth

I’ve been haunted by the word truth.

It first caught my attention when I saw an email from She Writes (a social media website for women writers) about my first Goddard advisor, Rahna Reiko Rizzuto. The blurb about her post “A Radical Act” included the following quote: “We women writers need to tell the truth about our lives.  It’s not a hobby or an indulgent luxury that we sit down to our desks and write. It is a service, a path-showing, a community we create for others.”

I didn’t click on the link even though I had been questioning rather or not I was being honest in my writing. I first began to ponder the idea when Reikko was my advisor at Goddard College. Her comments on my work helped me to realize I can be a writing prude. I’m uncomfortable writing about certain topics. Whenever I got too close to the certain truths, I back off.

Reikko’s memoir, Hiroshima in the Morning, received a lot of press because it chronicled her decision to leave her family to pursue her career as a writer. I remember watching her interview on The Today Show and thinking I could never be that honest.

Apparently God had a message for me. The next day I went to a writer’s conference, put on by the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Atlanta Women Writers Group, called “Getting in Touch with the Source”. The keynote speaker, Pearl Cleage (the author of What Looks Like Crazy on an Ordinary Day, an Oprah Book Club selection), started her talk by saying, “Seek the truth and speak the truth.”

I knew it wasn’t a coincidence. I had to admit that I neither sought the truth nor wrote the truth.

Take a look at a scene from Something’s Gotta Give. I see my writing sort of like Jack Nicholson’s character. I write a version of the truth.

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Unfortunately, just like Diane Keaton’s character remarks, truth doesn’t have versions. We either aren’t honest or we water things down. And that doesn’t make very interesting or good writing.

As writer’s we have to risk losing ourselves. That may mean diving into uncomfortable topics or deep emotional wells. Remember the next five minutes of the movie after Diane Keaton leaves Jack Nicholson where she sobs continually as she finishes her play? She was writing from truth.

Writing from truth is hard. We have to leave our comfort zone. We risk exposing our inner thoughts and fears. It leads us to places we’d rather forget. It confronts us with facts we’d rather ignore. But as Reikko said in her post, “We women writers need to tell the truth about our lives.” Honest writing empowers us as writers and gives courage to our readers. And I believe that’s why God gave us the desire to write.

I went back and read Reikko’s post. She hoped her decision to tell the truth about her motherhood would open a dialogue. But the media tried to shut her down. She stood by her truth, and as a result, she received email from several women who shared her struggle. Her words gave them a voice.

Who needs your words?